At the end of my time in Sundsvall, I met my next girlfriend, so a move back home was inevitable.

Back in my hometown, I took a break from coaching to focus on other interests. My writing was one of these, and my volume of work increased. I also started several failed blogs before I stopped blogging for a while.

Several friends had children by this point, and I was soon known as the fun Uncle Nicklas. I got a crash course on children as a babysitter, and helped some learn skills like cooking and homework assistance. I also hosted almost weekly BBQs and food-related events. More friends from other food cultures increased my knowledge of cooking. This time, I’ve focused more on Africa and Eastern Europe, and I’ve also started working with an increasing number of others I met during university.

During this time, I also got involved in our local justice system. For Americans, it’s like being a semi-pro jury with 1-2 days a month serving as nämndeman. I appreciated how hard it is to get convinced of someone’s guilt. I also have a considerable interest in politics and how research and statistics can be misused to portray something to prove a point. I was surprised that so many parties use this tactic.

Humor has been a big part of my life. I even took a stand-up course with a famous comedian during this time. The time investment in traveling made it time-sensitive and complex, so I quit.

Nicklas Wicklander